Moving house is considered one of life’s most stressful experiences - and adding young children into the mix can make it even more challenging. However, with the right approach, the process can not only be less stressful but even enjoyable for the whole family.
Here are some practical tips to help make moving with kids a smoother experience.
Talk to your children
Communication is key when preparing children for a move. Discussing it early, in a way that suits their age and understanding, can help ease their worries and make the transition smoother.
As soon as the decision to move is made, begin talking to your children about it. Giving them time to process the change can help them adjust gradually rather than feeling overwhelmed by sudden news. Choose a calm, stress-free time - such as a cosy evening at home or during a family meal - to introduce the idea of moving.
Let your children ask questions and express their feelings. Reassure them with honest and straightforward answers, addressing any concerns they may have.
Keep them involved
Involving your children in the moving process can make them feel more excited and less anxious. Take them to see the new house, show them their bedroom and ask how they’d like it decorated.
Depending on their age, let them create a mood board - either digital or physical - with colour samples, fabric swatches and pictures of furniture or toys they like. If you’re moving into a new build you could visit the show home, as it may have a children’s bedroom set up. This will help them visualise their own space.
Finally, explore the new area together - visit local parks, cafés or libraries to build excitement about their new surroundings.
Make a ‘new home’ wish list
Similar to a mood board, creating a wish list can help children feel part of the process. Within reason, let them have a say in decorating their new room - choosing paint colours, deciding where furniture should go and adding personal touches like posters or decorations.
Lean on family and friends
Moving day can be chaotic, and having children around can add to the challenge. If possible, ask family or friends to look after them for the day. This keeps them safe and entertained while you focus on the move and prevents them from getting bored or underfoot during a busy time.
To stay organised, create a moving plan that includes:
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a box of essentials (snacks, drinks, change of clothes, toilet roll, etc)
Pack toys last
While it’s a good idea to start packing early, leave your child’s favourite toys until the end to minimise disruption. Pack the toys they use most after everything else, ensuring they remain accessible. Prepare a moving day bag with their most-loved items, such as favourite toys, books and blankets. Having these familiar items on hand can provide comfort and security during the move.
Avoid major life changes at the same time
Moving house is already a big transition - where possible, try to avoid other major changes at the same time, such as changing jobs, getting a new pet or going on holiday.
If multiple changes are unavoidable, acknowledge the impact on your children and keep communication open to help them adjust.
Let them help with packing
Depending on their age, involve your children in packing their belongings. Give them a couple of boxes to pack, even if just for their toys and let them label their boxes and unpack them at the new home. This can help them feel involved in the move.
Establish a new routine
The first few weeks in a new home can feel unsettled, so try to establish a new routine as soon as possible. Reinstate morning and bedtime routines to maintain a sense of normality or create weekend traditions - such as visiting the local park - to help them feel at home in their new environment.
Consistency helps children feel secure, making the adjustment period smoother.
Manage emotional and physical changes
Moving can be an emotional experience for children, particularly if they’re leaving behind friends or changing schools. Let them know it’s okay to feel sad, excited or even nervous by encouraging open conversations so they feel comfortable expressing their emotions. Keep an eye on their behaviour at home and school to see how they’re coping.
Need help with your move?
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